Farmer vs. Mechanic Love Fixing

The clashing and conflict of Farmer Frank versus Michelle the Mechanic, the yea’s and nay’s of our two contradictory approaches, what Michelle did not want to hear and was glad to learn, timeouts, help from the deep inner mind, making choices versus growing solutions, some practical guidelines, and the beautiful interweave of what Frank and Michelle do now. Continue reading

Equality Quality in Love – a Super-Good Love Skill

The values, payoffs and subtleties of treating others as uniquely different but equal, and how it is best for that to be a part of a healthy, good, love relationship is presented here with a few author’s self disclosures. Continue reading

Blame Attacks Love

Blame Attacks LoveSynopsis: This mini-love-lesson starts with some important questions, goes on to 10 things to ponder about blame and then follows up with ways to reduce blame destructiveness in love relationships.

Important Questions

Do you get blamed a lot by people you love?  Are you a ‘blamer’ of those you love?  If blamed do you ‘counter-blame’?   Do you do a… Continue reading

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Faithfulness Fears and the Love Cure

In some surprising and different-than-usual ways, this mini-love-lesson addresses the problem of what to do when someone is troubled by fears that their spouse, love partner, special other is not being faithful. Included are what to do before you do anything else, the role of healthy self-love, not letting fears take you over, using more and different love relating skills and the importance of self-disclosure love. Continue reading

Healthy Self-Love and Not Giving Your Power Away

Common ways we give our power away and don’t do healthy self-love in the process, The super important foundation concept and it’s “win-win” way, Ways to retain our power and one way we all learn not to, Four power questions to start improving with, “Owning” your power, Plus a thought-provoking Love Success Question to end on. Continue reading